6 signs you re dating a loser
Ahead of anything, a man who is straying may start showing a shift in the way they behave, and this is generally connected to the way their appearance.'Men start to take a bit more care.
They might work out a bit more, or be clean shaven more often, or start dressing a bit better or smelling nicer,' David said.'A change of appearance is generally quite strong.'The investigations expert said technology has changed the playing field when it comes to cheating partners.
Although there are ways to track a partner's internet activity, or gather other evidence such as combing through credit card bills to spot any unusual activity, catching someone in the act often means bringing in a professional.
David, who has 20 years' experience as a private investigator, said his company's main service is gathering visual documentation that shows a person has been unfaithful.'It's getting the proof of the infidelity on film.'He said the work of an investigator is about catching out the person's lie, 'They said were going to point A and they've ended up at point B with somebody else.'Most of David's results come from conventional surveillance, which includes the use of forensic tools, hidden cameras and night vision equipment.
A honey trapper is where a decoy is sent into a favourite watering hole or gym to flirt with a partner to see what happens next; it catches out infidelity before it even happens, David explains.
But that doesn’t mean that it’s easy to develop complete trust in a person. it’s really freakin’ hard, especially if you’ve been hurt and/or betrayed in the past.
Putting your trust someone is essentially you making yourself more vulnerable, and a lot of people have trouble with that. I’ve been burned pretty badly in the past, by both close friends and romantic partners, and it has caused me to be extremely cautious about who I trust now. But when you meet someone who you really like, you to trust them…